I am a very independent person. I have a good sense of humor and I'm very fun to be around. I was married for 10 years and my husband died in June. We we separated in mid April, so there was A LOT of guilt I went through for leaving. But, I had to do what I had to do for certain reasons. I am the type I believe a guy should have their night outs with the guys. I believe if they are going to cheat on you, they will do it regardless. I do not need to be around my partner 24/7. I think it is very healthy for each person to have their time a lone with their friends or their own hobbies. I was always told by husband's friends that I was a very good wife. However, I can be a "firecracker" which I guess that means I am very easy to get a long with, but don't lie, take advantage of my kindness; I will not be treated with disrespect. It is a two-way street and marriage is very hard, but communication, respect and trust are the three most important things. I am constantly telling my friends, that what men would call "nagging" about the small stuff, please don't. I often think: why did I get on him for not putting the toilet paper roll back on, leaving his wet towel on the floor. Because does that really matter anyway. It does not. So, whoever, I will end up sharing my life with, will have someone who is grateful that you made it home okay, that small petty stuff.. DOES NOT MATTER! I want a best-friend, somebody that we can just sit on the couch and talk all night or work in the yard with. I love Alice chains, Tool, Hinder, Nickelback, Maroon 5 and Pink Floyd. I'm also a clean freak!!! I'm not at all a jealous person!! I am very blunt! However, I think that it is better to be that way than to lie or to be fake.

I like to go have a couple of drinks to try to break the ice. I love to travel and my favorite thing to do is to go boat riding. I am very open-minded! Concerts are one of my favorite things to do too. There is not to much I don't like to do. I look at life a lot different since my husband died at age 33. Life is to short to be unhappy and to surround yourself with negative people. I choose to wake up everyday and tell myself, "I am so lucky to have the life I have." I know that I will fall in love again one day!!
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