So one of my buds told me I was too mean in my last description, so here goes another one....

I am a single parent of three awesome kids. I am looking for someone who is comfortable spending times with children as well as time for just adults. I am not a smoker, or a partier, however, I don't mind and even like going out for a night on the town occasionally. I am looking for someone fun, easy-going, has no trouble making decisions and is not looking for a banker or a stand-in for his mommy. I want someone who treats me as his equal and will not cheat or lie to me, and expects the same of me. If you are over 50, or married, please don't even bother contacting me. I am not looking for NSA's or random one-nighters. If we become involved on a physical level, Im not into sharing with a bunch of other people..

My music tastes is pretty varied. I also enjoy watching a wide range of movies/tv....when I have the time to actually sit and enjoy it....ha.
Also, you must like watching football and basketball-high school, college, and NFL.

I am happy with my life, but I am always looking for ways to improve my surroundings and myself, but not at the expense or detriment of others. My children are my priority but I am not looking for their new daddy, rather a resonably mature, yet fun adult who would be willing to guide or just listen to them if they need it.

I don't have list or what my ideal man does, or is or looks because what may work for one person, may not work for the next. I enter all relationships with the expectation that if things don't progress to the next level, then at least we can come away with a new friend. I'm looking for the man who no matter how busy and hectic our lives are can kiss me and make me happy to miss an appointment or two....lol.

Life is too short for hate, and narrow-minds. Judge me solely on looks, or money or what I can do for you, then you may miss out on one of the most beautiful, rich, givers in the world...lol. I won't judge you that way either. Seriously, who wants to wake up to a plastic, empty person for the rest of their life?

I'm fairly easy-going. All that I really require on a date is for both of us to enjoy ourselves. Since first dates are as unique as the people participating in them, I really don't have a standard first date. What do you suggest?