Hi, I'll try to keep this short. I'm a straight forward person. I stay true to myself and sometimes that means not putting too much importance on what other people think of me. I'm not the type of guy to be doting over a woman and bending over backwards to please her or gain her approval, but that being said, I am a gentleman in every sense of the word. I'm confident, funny, intelligent, strong, secure, affectionate, considerate, extremely loving, and understanding. Jack, however, is all grown up and he's not looking for Jill anymore; so if you're a flakey club girl, God bless you, but please move on.

Me, I'm almost always in a great mood and I'll often find myself in hysterics with my friends about some nonsensical thing or another. Be prepared as well, I will most definitely be busting on you and having fun at your expense, so if you're inclined to take yourself seriously, God bless you, but once again, please move along. I am very affectionate and if I'm attracted to you, chances are I won't be able to keep my hands off of you. I'll be holding your hand and kissing you when you least expect it, but I'll also be pushing you right off the bed if you misbehave, so beware. My love is ALIVE.

I'm looking for an attractive intelligent grown-up woman who's got her life together. Someone who's brave enough to drop her defenses (we've all got them) and take a chance on life and love. I've grown weary of gossiping, shallow judgmental types who find entertainment in the dissection of others. Looking for somebody a little more evolved than that. I know there are many of you out there.

I've got a rich and fulfilled life and career and I'd be interested in sharing new experiences with somebody special, but as in all important things, I'm very discerning, and I wouldn't have it any other way. I'd rather go without something than compromise.

So, if you're not covered in tattoos and you've got healthy teeth and gums, nice hands, pretty feet, good hygiene, and tend to be gravitated toward happy things like Christmas time, family values, light, love, holding hands, and being generally pleasant to people, then drop me a line sometime. I can't promise anything, but if nothing else maybe we could be good friends.

This won't sound very romantic but I think it's important to be realistic. A cup of tea or coffee in a cafe would be the best first date. If things go well, you'll be amazed and delighted by the places I will take you.