I'm a rather quiet person who believes you should plan for today because tomorrows grounds are too uncertain. Is that bad? I work full time and spend quite a bit of time in the gym after work. I'm not a fit person but am hoping to get there. I've usually got myself plugged in to 80's rock while I'm there. I enjoy a range of music. Ozzy, Leonard Cohen, Metallica, Leonard Skynard, Patty Smythe, and classical music to mname a few.
I don't really have any hobbies per say. I've only been in the city for just over a year and don't find there is much around to get involved in. When I get bored I'll go for a walk (like today walked in the rain) or try to find other amusement. (usually cleaning my apartment. lol) I guess its more fun to do things with someone.
I'm not into mind games, and am very respectful of people, just be honest.

A first date??? I don't want to be showered with gifts, or have big expensive evenings out. I want to be with the person for them not for how they can impress me. A hot cup of coffee and a long walk through the city parks to find that perfect spot to sit and enjoy our coffee and have a quiet place to talk and get to know a bit about eachother.