Everyone is looking for their needle in a haystack and you feel like you're looking for one in a hundred haystacks. She wants handsome but it's not the handsome that others see. She wants educated but it's not a PhD. To her intelligent is being open and moving along a spiritual path and being able to articulate and live the wisdom that makes life all it can be. Money makes things nicer but she sees being successful as having the things that money can't buy that make you happy. She needs sophisticated and high class but it's not what most people think it is. It's something you can't buy or imitate. It's not your job, how much money you make, designer labels or the car you drive. Being a quality person is what you are. It's how you dress, your body language, how you walk, how you look at a person. It's your expression and what someone sees in your eyes when you look at them. It's treating all people with respect and dignity. It's how you take care of yourself and your things, how you live your life all the time and not just when people are looking. High quality is a non-dysfunctional, orderly lifestyle so you have time to help others and make the world a better place. High quality doesn't mean you're perfect but you are able to be in a happy, monogamous LTR because you are perfect enough. It means you've done the best you can on your own and know that a relationship will even make you better if you swallow your pride. I see high quality as not playing the battle of the sexes game because you've matured by experiencing the wrong way and understand why the old-fashioned traditional male/female roles work. Being high quality is having a life that isn't just about you because you woke up and became aware of the things of the past that sabotage relationships and changed. Being high quality is not a thing easily found these days and is to be treasured. You will know what you got and won't take it for granted...and so will I. My Word of the day for you to note is that: The easiest part of marriage is falling in love and walking down the aisle. The most difficult part of marriage is 10 years later when the problems have ensued and issues have come about and you still find love. Marriage is not about the beginning, marriage is about the process and still being able to love through all things..

I am looking to take someone for a picnic in the park with a stimulating conversation are u game!!!