Well I had hoped I was done with this site... apparently not lol. About me eh? Well to say the least my life is hectic and I kinda like it that way, I enjoy keeping busy and always being on the go, BUT i have NO problem making time for people important to me, or to meet people who have the possibility of becoming important to me. I work part time, and go to 2 different schools one day class and one evening class. I have 2 great kids, who do not live with me but i see very regularly and are my main reason for being in school so much. I enjoy being idependant, I'm not looking for someone to take care of me. As much as I like spending time with "someone special" I also think its important in a relationship to do your own things and have a life outside of just the two of you. My friends and family are very important to me. I really hate talking about myself, so if you'd like to know anything just ask :)
So I seem to meet some very "interesting" people from this site, but I refuse to put everyone in the same category and make it stereotypical of this site. HOWEVER I have decided to be a little bit more picky on the people I talk to. I need someone who has ambition... I'm not entirely sure what is going on with the world of POF but being 35, no job, no car and living with your mom is not acceptable to me. Living with mom is ok, if theres a reason for it, but living off her ....not cool. I'm 28, I go to school full time, I have a job, I own a car, I live on my own, these arent hard things to acheive. I guess I just have a hard time understanding.
So without sounding materialistic, because I'm not, If you don't have a job or a vehicle, I probably wont respond to you. Reason being: You need a job to support yourself... yes yourself... not me... I dont want your money.... and my car may be yellow but sure doesnt say taxi on the side of it, I dont always want to be the one driving. Plus if we decide to meet somewhere, I'd like to meet there, not pick you up and take you there lol.
OK so I have completely realized that my life is beyond hectic right now, therefore... I'm discontinuing my search. I'm always up for meeting new people, I just dont feel at this moment in my life I can commit to anything other then a friendship, but I'm open and who knows, I'm not one to close a door :P


"I dare you to need me
Like nobody else
I dare you to feel me
Like you've never felt
I dare you to know me
Like I've never known
I dare you to show me
That I can be shown
I dare you to hold me
Like you never will again
Kiss me and leave the world standing still
I dare you to want to
want to wanna be good to me"

Maybe go for a coffee or a beer