Hi....thanks for checking me out........I got rid of what I wrote about myself, just to say that I am leaving this site. Ladies, all I can say is may you all have a good life and I hope you find what your looking for.You all have shown me such a variety of beauty on this site, that the only problem for most may be distance. Follow your heart and do the best you can. I do want to say to one new friend I made...who called me a gentlemen..thank you Cindy.To everybody else, it's not easy in your 40's or 50's..but I still believe in love,.may we all find it to some degree, and when we do, water it and give it sunshine everyday to help it grow, for lack of attention kills almost anything.....I'll check on here now and then, until the Holidays pass...until then, may you all take care............thank you...Mike....but if you still want to message me to find out more..please do...still hope to find my best friend,lover and the person I can grow older with.

Wow..first dates...I think the more relaxed it can be the better...maybe have lunch together or a
drink at one of your favorite spots..just somewhere that we could have a conversation and get to know each other a little more.