I would like to find and cherish someone with an an easy outer smile and inner beauty that only selective people recognize; She realizes dreams change with situations; She doesn't dwell on 'what she wants' but appreciates what she has and she likes who she is ... She understands 'cause, effect and consequence' and 'reciprocation'. She is an eternal optimist and revels in her femininity ... she doesn't dwell on 'complications' because she knows life is complicated and she smiles as she sorts it out (inwardly :-)....

If she is something like this she is a lot like me ...except for the femininity part (~;
Robert dwells in the earth but cleans up well. He's alive and active and young behind his years. He's not fragile, nor vulnerable, not afraid of much, just cautious but curious ... amused with anything and everything .... will never stop learning but would love to have one special woman to share new experiences ...

He can sniff the difference between a South African or Italian merlot (his favourite!) or an Aussie or Chilean shiraz (tied for second:)... now this doesn't necessarily mean he's cultured ... he's just observant and could probably use significant correction ... he's not oblivious to 'change' and 'growth'...

He loves all things with sails and big sea ... born and raised a water baby ...

He has evolved to the point where he knows the very best sex is neither casual nor short termed ...

He's easily enthralled with a feminine essence which transcends the idea of 'sexes' and likes to make the utmost of the differences ...

If you feel there are possibilities here ... you've read this far :-) ...please get in touch ...

I have to address references to 'players' etc; I do believe under certain circumstances; a sort of chemistry leads to intimacy very quickly but for the most part there is always a sixth sense of logic in my thinking which, regardless of passion, denies transgression of respect... without mutual respect an important aspect of the relationship is missing ... I am not much for the 'aggressive' type of person (unless I know her very well and she has her debaucherous moments :-)(in such case I love aggression!). If you add me to your 'favourites', I will respond with an email, if I put you on my 'favourites' it simply means I like your 'profile' and would like to hear from you ... please remove if you don't feel so inclined and I wish you the best in your search ...

Robert

Go for breakfast, coffee ... a first date could go on forever ... talk .... hmmm ... mmmm ... steal a kiss ...laugh a lot .... then maybe lunch .... 'walk on a beach', skip a few stones, kick a few pebbles around ... skip a few stones again ... gaze a lot... ...then dinner .... then 'cuddle by a roaring fire' watch a chick flick, roast marshmellows over a fire .... steal a kiss! ... set out for a chocolate breakfast in NYC ... go for lunch on Coney Island ...
OK, ok ... Coffee is good. Wine is good. Beer is good. Patios are OK ...