I am 43 years old and have been told I am attractive, although that is in each individuals eyes. I have a varied interest in lots of things to fun kicking drink, socialising, meals, walking, travelling, music some theatre and cinema and snuggling up on the sofa with a bottle of wine. I really am that varied and find nothing boring really, although I don't or wouldnt be interested in bird watching, or train spotting (Ha Ha). I have been single again for 18 months and have no hang ups regarding men or past and would really like to meet somebody who likes a little fun, not to serious at first but is genuine, a little romantic but not over bearingley so and who wants to take a relationship seriously, hopefully we are all looking for the same thing. I enjoy going out with friends for whom have kept me sane over the past few years. I have travelled quite extensively over the last 2 years and have a great job, car and home, so solvent. My children by the way have both left home and have children themselves so I am a glamorous grandma also!!!!! I am not on the computer every night as work long hours and sometimes out of town, so please don't be disappointed if I don't respond immediately. I also will not respond if I don't like the look of somebody again just being honest which I believe it states in the terms and conditions anyway. No time wasters or nutters or neurotic men please just a normal, genuine and kind thoughtful man will do.

I would like to meet somewhere neutral and would prefer maybe something queit like a country pub so that we can talk and get to know each other. Or somewhere thats a little lively but socialable, and probably a quick get away in case we clash. I dont like confrontations and am really laid back. I love going out for meals to local country pubs nothing to flashy although this again depends on the right person. I am solvent so not wanting somebody just to buy me meals or drinks etc., Genuine down to a T.