I enjoy outdoor activities like camping, hiking, mountain biking, snowboarding, surfing, offroading in my jeep, motorcycles, motor sports, basically anything fun that doesn't break the law...to bad, or hurt people around me. I enjoy going to music venues,comedy shows, on/off broadway shows, food,beer and wine festivals,going to the movies, spending time with my friends and loved ones. Love to travel and road trips,long weekends away and trying new things. I also enjoy working out and mixed martial arts training. Last but certainly not least I love spending time with my dog Murphy.

My goals in the near future is to continue to go to school for criminal justice, running my family owned heavy equipment constuction company with my brothers and father, and be the best soldier I can be ( I'm a Military Police Soldier with the NJ Army National Guard....and Yes, I do love it). I don't think to far ahead because then you lose sight of what's right in front of you and miss out on so many good things. Of course I think about the future and what it hold but I prefer to make short term goals instead of long term goals because they are easier to obtain and push you forward.

I am a very strong minded and dedicated person and I take pride it that. I am very caring and loving to the people I love and to those who deserve it. I would do anything for the people I love and go out of my way to help those in need,guess that's why I love being a soldier. I love to laugh and if people around me aren't having fun then I will do my best to make them smile and enjoy themselves. I am not into drama but it seems that most people I meet live for it. I am an easy going/out going guy and people are drawn to me. I am very opinionated and I very rarely sugar coat anything,unless of course it is required for the situation. I speak my mind and would like the people around me to do the same. Communication is a very important thing to me in a friendship or a relationship,so talking things out and working thru troubles and problems is key.

Music is a very important thing in my life. I love most kinds of music and as long as it has meaning, motivates, helps you think and feel ,or makes you shake your booty then it's good for me. I mostly listen to punk/alternative/hard rock, but I also do listen to rap but not all of it,mostly old school rap but i do enjoy new rap as long as it's fun. Some of my favorite bands are Bouncing Souls, Flogging Molly, Rise Against, Dropkick Murphys, Chevelle, Breaking Benjamins,Mudvayne, Slipknot, and Social Distortion. That's only a few that I really enjoy but there is so many more. Music helps keep me driven and my mood usually revolves around what I am listening to. I am always open to new music so throw it at me and I'll give it a listen.

First off the first date has many factors that you have to take into consideration. Now is this date in the Spring/ Summer months? If so, then I would most likely want to do something that involves being outside (weather permiting). The Jersey shore is always an option and I love the beach so it would definately be on my list of things to do. I also like going to historical places like Princeton or New Hope. I like New Hope because it's along the river and there is so many places to shop, eat, drink, dance or just relax and soak up the atmosphere. I'd avoid an excessively loud place because I want to be able to focus my attention to the person I am on the date with and that is hard with people yapping right next to my ear in a cramped bar. There is a time for that kind of place but it's not on a first date. An amazing dinner is a must and as long as the person I am with enjoys drinks then that is a must too, just not too many... (sometimes that's ok though). Music and dancing is a plus but only after me and my date have kicked it off and had time to get to know each other. I know I'm dragging this whole first date thing on but somethings need to be explained in detail so please hang with me for a few minutes.

Now if that date is in Fall/ Winter then I love going into either NYC or Philly and enjoying all that those cities have to offer, like bars, clubs, coffee houses, comedy shows ( one of my favs), music venues, stuff like that. I love Central Park in the winter, so amazing! Again, a great dinner is a must and drinks are a great way to warm the spirit. I have a weak spot for a beautiful woman all bundled up in her winter clothes, with the scarf, the little hat, gloves and boots... melts my heart.

I enjoy the seasons and all they offer so a date in any of the four will be enjoyable,I make sure of that.