Update to August 2009: Now am back to POF after two years in a relationship.....I can confirm that I have absolutely no idea what I am looking for. Really!!!!!!!!!and have no idea if my profile below is what I want to put out there but am too lazy to change. Lets just see where this goes again.........

I am a funny social girl who likes to play with my friends. I love to go to dinner and share a night out for drinks at the pub or at friends' houses. I love to have coffee and chat and have BBQs and go to the park. I am looking for a funny intelligent honest man who cares about himself and his friends and those in the world.....Im a bit of a leftie... I like to think I have a social conscience..........
Respect for yourself and others is a must. Good manners are always appreciated.
As is a sunny disposition......I am a very happy positive person and would wish to find same to spend time with.

I like confident but not arrogant and somebody who is quite settled and content in their life and where they are going. I dont do bitter and twisted - never has been a good look for anybody.

Its always easier to know what you dont want I guess and to know when you see it.
Im actually quite normal really....I think.... You would probably need to confirm that with my friends and exes though I guess............
Oh and I really appreciate a man who enjoys cooking for me - my pleasures are quite simple

Dinner? coffee? Nothing too heavy...........