b4 I start i DO NOT DO MSN, so no point in asking. On to things that matter. I'm part time Army now(TA), was a regular soldier many years ago, was in Iraq late last year and up to the late april/may this year.. i try do my best in every thing i do. as for any thing else if i put it all here there would be nothing to talk about. would there????? I forgot to mention i'm house broken. and i can cook. oh yes and i know how to use a washing machine properly. I think the best sound off all is a babies laughter.(cracks me up).I do think there is someone for everyone, i do not want Mrs Right Now, i want mrs right for me'' I WOULD LIKE TO FIND A BEST FRIEND AND CONFIDANT 1ST AND FOREMOST.... i'll NOT mess you around so please dont mess me around. YOU ONLY GET ONE CHANCE WITH ME.

"A contradiction can not exist in reality. Not in part, nor in whole. To believe in a contradiction is to abdicate your belief in the existence of the world around you and the nature of the things in it, to instead embrace any random impulse that strikes your fancy ? to imagine something is real simply because you wish it were. A thing is what it is, it is itself. There can be no contradictions.

Faith is a device of self-delusion, a sleight of hand done with words and emotions founded on any irrational notion that can be dreamed up. Faith is the attempt to coerce truth to surrender to whim. In simple terms, it is trying to breath life into a lie by trying to outshine reality with the beauty of wishes. Faith is the refuge of fools, the ignorant, and the deluded, not of thinking, rational men.

In reality, contradictions cannot exist. To believe in them you must abandon the most important thing you possess: your rational mind. The wager for such a bargain is your life. In such an exchange, you always lose what you have at stake."

"The most important rule there is: the only sovereign you can allow to rule you is reason. The first law of reason is this: what exists, exists, what is, is and from this irreducible bedrock principle, all knowledge is built. It is the foundation from which life is embraced.

Thinking is a choice. Wishes and whims are not facts nor are they a means to discover them. Reason is our only way of grasping reality; it is our basic tool of survival. We are free to evade the effort of thinking, to reject reason, but we are not free to avoid the penalty of the abyss that we refuse to see. Faith and feelings are the darkness to reasons light. In rejecting reason, refusing to think, one embraces death."

depends on the person.. A FIRST DATE. i think a first date should be very casual no pressure to impress nor judgmental, you know at 1st glance if you are attracted to someone, after that the rest should flow naturaly decide there and then if its coffee or not, so best place for me is a shopping centre. you can talk while window shopping, do proper shop and decide what you would like to do after, or go seperate ways without any major disapointment, if you bond straight away you know its a right date not a wrong one, and you feel a click inside that affects you on all levels of who and what you are, and the thought of parting distresses you. then you have found the right one...... PS: must be near a JC ROOK and Sons hahahahah love their pasties.....