For starters I am pretty much a homebody but do like to get out sometimes and have a little adventure. My goal in life is to raise my kids to be happy, well centered, sucessful adults. I am honest, been told I am too honest actually. I just don't beat around the bush and rather people be totally honest and upfront with me also. I love to burn incense and candles. I'm a neat freak. Can't stand a mess. Love to curl up with a good book, but can't stand to be too idle. I'm a loner but enjoy good company sometimes. Do not want a man that wants to be with me constantly but I do also do not want one that thinks he is suppose to go out with his friends every night of the week either. I really don't want a guy who thinks that being in a bar is the best thing he can do with his time and if we were suppose to be seeing each other exclusively, it would offend me for him to think it was okay for him to go without me. I am a one man woman and I do not cheat or lie. I would expect the same consideration. And never ask me to do a freaking threesome!!! If thats your fantasy then you need to fulfill it before you settle down with a woman you love and loves you back! Don't lie to me, cheat on me, or leave me hanging when I'm counting on you. This is what most women would want from their guy, even if its not what they post on here. so if you're here to play games, look under the casual dating part!

Just coffee or lunch would be fine. You need time for that first initial meeting to talk and see if you like what you see and if there's a connection.