ok so im back giving internet dating another shot.i had no luck before,but who knows maybe it will be my time now.lol im very independent ive been at the same job for the past ten years,so i dont need anyone for financial reasons.im just looking for that one person that i connect with on every level.Im really starting to wonder if that even exists.Im looking for my partner and my bestfriend.someone who will not judge and truely care about me.and I will do the same in return.I have a hard time connecting with a very jealous person.You need to be confident within yourself for me to have respect for you.im not in highschool anymore,so im not looking for those highschool games.if you cant be real from the start then dont even bother,because i dont have time for any nonsense. keep looking cause im not the one.i dont mean to sound rude,i just know what I wont settle for.Im a single mother of a 14 year old boy.He is the best kid ever and very accepting for me to find someone to give my love to.I have been single for over two years now by choice.I wanted to take some time for myself and focus on things i needed to do in my life.I have really discovered who i really am in these past two years and know now that im ready to share myself with a man that captures my heart.i want someone to laugh with,and to cry with if need be.I want someone that really will communicate openly even if it might not be what the other person wants to hear.I always say the truth always comes out so why not just be honest.Ive stood by those words with my son and he will talk to me about anything.Even things i really dont want to hear.lol My point is be real with me and i wont judge you i will take you for who you are if your real from the start.If you put on a fake persona in the beginning then we are going to have a problem.I have a great life,with great friends i just want to share it with someone.I dont have alot money , what i do have is alot of heart.People always say im very humble.Im just an honest hard working woman.I also enjoy alot active things.I will go quading,jet sking,baseball games,foot ball games,do yard work.check the oil in my car.etc etc...i can also dress up very nice for a night out on the town.Im very versatile.As far as looks.I think i have some stuff going for me.I think my eyes is my best physical.I dont really know what im looking for.I look at all these guys and just dont know.To tell you the truth im trying to focus less on just looks.You can be the hottest guy and have no personality.So yea i really have no idea as far as looks.Im not going to lie of course you have to have some kind of physical attraction from the very beginning but even if you dont think a person is hot it can change when the inner beauty comes out.Ive seen it time and time again.ive been giving guys a chance that i normally wouldnt even consider but im trying to have an open mind.and beauty is in the eye of the beholder right.