i have a 16 yr. old daughter who ive raised alone since she was 8 months old. i recently got out of a 4 year relationship with a much younger woman which drove me crazy. i love affection,touching,romance and just snuggling which i didnt get for those 4yrs. I am a hopeless romantic bubble bathes,moonlit walks while holding hands,soft music(when appropiate),flowers etc. etc.I feel its the simple things in life that mean the most. I do feel there has to be a physical attraction whether it be the smile,voice,touch,or yes the physique,etc.etc.Its what drew you to that person,the thing you think of most whenyou are thinking of them. I am looking for the person who will enhance my life as hopefully i will thiers. Im not much into the bar scene anymore but still enjoy it occasionally. Id prefer to stay home and run her a bubble bath with flowers and candles then maybe some snuggleing on the sofa with a horror movie or something like that.COMMUNICATION...this is vital for a couple to suceed. You kinda need to know what the other is feeling,thinking,wanting and/or needing at different times.So if i cant tell you my likes or dislikes without you being offended then it wont go far. This is a two way street too! A relationship is 50/50 and you will get out what you put in. i can enjoy most anything with the right company however i enjoy playing basketball,baseball,horror movies, most any music EXCEPT that hardcore rap garbage. Well if I sound like someone youd be interested in meeting you can look me up on AIM or YAHOO MESSENGER and both those screenames are romance2863....TTFN

first date....hmmmm guess id have to make that decision after speaking to you.