What I am SEEKING: Single never married, widowed, or divorced (at least 3 years since the judge signed the final papers) male, between ages 37-47 for long term relationship and eventually marriage if the flowers bloom. Kids are welcome. Animals are welcome (except for snakes and spiders). Hee! Hee! He must be COLLEGE educated and "not" live outside of Georgia. I like classy guys that look good in a suit and that prefer air conditioning to sweating. Also, he prefers to see his lady in an evening gown rather than sweat pants, and must have old fashioned Christian values/beliefs. Being able to leap tall buildings in a single bound would be a plus!

Let's face it, that initial attraction is what keeps us interested to learn more. I don't know about you but three double chins and a beer belly just don't do it for me. Make sense? I think so.

Just use your common sense, if you would have the courage to approach me at the grocery store and start a conversation contact me. If not, then that means you and I would never meet unless you hid behind your computer and posted a fake pic. And know this; I consider that being a liar, as most people do. Guys, guys, guys.....I am a smart lady, and I can read between the lines. I am not a jerk. Trust me, I get asked to dance by men I am not attracted to all the time and I do say yes occasionally. But I say yes only because I want to dance not because I want to go out with the guy. I just don't want to date someone I wouldn't want to kiss. Make sense. Cool. Being realistic is a beautiful thing. Don't you think? I do. Telling the truth about the harsh realities of online dating is not a bad thing believe me. It cuts down on the riff raff and lets the time wasters know you have a B.S. detector.

P.S. *This should be a given for any lady with her head on her shoulders but let me reiterate that I do not date married, separated, newly divorced guys, or any man looking for the casual hook-up or "other relationship"...whatever the HECK that means! These are non-negotiable so please respect my preferences and don't waste my time or yours. Thanks.

Low threat chemistry check in a public place with option to extend or make a quick escape.