Ok...let's throw all kidding aside. Someone who is on this site looking for a male companion, friend, lover and / or confidant of course wants someone who is honest...but not brutally honest....just doesn't lie and cheat and or do things to hurt, cause pain or disparage the relationship.....but if you ask me how I like the dress I may choose my words wisely. Second, to say that a woman does not want their man to be financially successful, motivated, nor have goals or ambitions is also crazy....I mean what kind of guy are you really looking for if none of those if not all of those are prerequisites. Finally please don't ask about things in a man’s life as if you’re going to judge him by the mistakes he has made and please remember that 'the guy you are interested in has secrets than he will take to his grave' and if you don't think he does....wow....how naive are you?

Disclaimer: The above statement may not make me many lady friends but I am being honest.....

ABOUT ME!

I am self sufficient, motivated, focused, and energized and would love to travel. I have built a successful real estate investment company and am looking for a special friend to share many more adventures.

I don't mind the lazy Sunday, the walk in the park nor the quiet night at home.

Looking for someone fun loving, adventurous and open for just about any adventure life throws our way. If you like to travel and scuba dive that would be a plus.

It seems to be a struggle to summarize yourself with clarity and to not sound like a 'dork'...lol...I guess that's why some guys would have a female friend write their profile. Or put it in bulletin points. Anyway, I hope you would like to know more about me before you take a 'pass'. Let's strike up a conversation and if you allow me the honor of a 'real date' I promise I am a complete gentleman. lol...if that's what your looking for...

Let me start with what is most important.

The right match is a lady who is her own person, her own goals, her own feelings, her own thoughts; I want you to be your own person. (If that means being my help mate, and that is what you want then that is ok as well) She has her own dreams and her own desires but would like for her partner to be involved with it all as well. The best match would be kind hearted, loving of and in herself, of children (hers as well as others).

I seek that special person to promote, encourage and to enjoy life with...

The perfect match for her would be someone she is in a high level of harmony and peace with. It would be a match of need...want...desire...balanced in all areas.

I am focused, energized and willing to set goals to better my person, my wealth and my relationships. I feel time is my most valued possession when used wisely and that I only live once, but I also know when to take time out to recharge my batteries. I seek to expand my real estate investment opportunities that will allow me to travel and see wonderful and exotic places. I would love to meet that special someone that shares like interests of travel, scuba diving (this is not manditory to scuba dive but she better like to shop or have her own hobbies when i am under water) and the outdoors. Grow old together and make this relationship the last and greatest true love...a partner. I am looking forward to building a future to build a dream house but don't necessarily want to build it to suit me...I would like it to be a team effort with a partner. Those are all part of building and holding wonderful memories.

I enjoy sporting events...baseball, football....no matter the team..no matter the city. I want to experience every stadium I can. I enjoy quite moments...fire light, candlelight...See things I have never seen.

I want to financially further my life to where I don't have to rely on Social Security to live on and i would like to retire in relative comfort and peace knowing that 'our' children have the opportunity and right to chose to go to college.

I am open minded in many things. I may be looking for you but you'll never know unless you have the courage to talk to me first...it's a challenge........

I am open for anything though I would much prefer someplace that is not too loud...concerts are great but not really a place to communicate to see if we have some interests.

I do not mind all day dates on the weekends. Day trip to the Mtns, local points of interest. A day of football or baseball with lunch or dinner is fun. A day trip to N. Florida or Birmingham to scuba dive.

I have met for coffee or a happy hour mid week before a weekend date. It gives us the chance to meet for an hour before an extended date.