I'm a fit and decent looking guy who wants a companion to hang out with friends, go out some times and just watch TV or a movie together. I like most types of music. I am a funny guy that is very secure of my masculinity and also have a soft heart and much compassion. If you are looking for a girly man, I am not for you. With regards to the drugs question I am not a dope head but have been known to puff a joint here and there if a friend has one. To me its a plant not a drug. If that bothers the right woman, I would gladly not even indulge that little bit. Hopefully you will appreciate my openness and honesty. If we do hook up I am always just that. If you can't handle brutal honesty (if you ask me if an outfit looks good on you or makes your butt look big be prepared for my honest opinion, etc....) I am also not for you. If you want a strong, intelligent, fun man that makes you laugh, I am for you. One after thought. Most profiles I look at say "must not be looking for intimate encounter". What the Hell is up with that? I thought the whole concept of this site is to find somebody you are attracted to and compatible with and hopefully if all the stars align just right, eventually (and by eventually I don't mean years) lead to intimate moments with said person. If you are totally devoid of intimacy, see afore mentioned girly men above. Who even puts a time on intimacy. It could come in days, weeks, or a month or two or three. I suspect that successful relationships can't happen or thrive without intimacy. If you don't feel even remotely intimate after seeing someone for a "few" months, face it, its not gonna happen a year or two later. Seeing someone for a long period of time without intimacy is called friendship not a couple. If Rogo finds the right woman that rings his bell, intimacy would hopefully be abundant. I mean crap, even a hug is intimate. You intimacy phobic women should see if there is a plentyofcoldfish.com. Thanks for letting me vent.