I am honest, kind, gentle, passionate and not getting any younger. I have kissed a lot of frogs and but have not met the right one. I am not crazy about the winter anymore, I love warm weather and being at the beach. I feel most at home by the water. I live with 3 ragdoll cats that don't speak English yet. My greatest pride and joy is my beautiful daughter who, along with her husband, is a county police officer. They have a 19 month old son who is the cutest baby that ever lived (takes after my side of the family). I like a wide variety of music from country to classical to rock to opera. Music is very important to me and is never background noise to me - if I am playing music I am actively listening to it. Like most people I am looking for that spark - for a friend that I can talk to, that I can love and who will love me back and appreciate me for who I am. I don't want to grow old alone. I feel like there is still so much more life to live - and it's so much more fun with someone. I have spent alot of time in relationships with angry, mean men. Please if you have anger issues move on to the next profile. Thanks.