Lets make it simple. Im currently going through a divorce and while what im looking for is simple enough to explain, i feel that explaining what im not looking for will help weed-out anyone who is confused about it.

Im not looking for anyone to support, so if youre bringing kids looking for a daddy, or any other financial or emotional baggage, just stop because i dont need it. Conversely, im not looking to be supported by anyone. I have my own house, my own car, my own money and i make my own way.
What i am looking for is a good-looking, intelligent woman. I want a woman with class, and if i have to explain what class is, then just move along please because chances are, you dont have it. I want a woman who is independent, well-situated in her life, has a good head on her shoulders, and has a good sense of humor.
Im not looking for another wife. Im not even looking for a girlfriend. Im just looking for a nice woman that i can spend an occasional evening with. Company and companionship, plain and simple.

First dates are kind of obsolete, seeing as how hopefully, every one of our encounters would technically be a date. However, i suppose our first encounter would include either me coming to you, or you coming to me, or even meeting somewhere in between. Dinner, of course. We could go out, or i could cook something at home for you. I dont drink often, but if you want to include beer or wine, that wouldnt be a problem. After that, perhaps some good conversation, a place to be alone, and whatever happens after that, happens.