Ultimately, I'm looking someone who wants to spend time together and share my life – be it grocery shopping, playing tennis, or a day in the Castro. I want someone to look on me with affection, to enjoy my quirks, and to rein me in when I’m wrong. ‘Course, that’s the big picture… I also want someone who’ll take the time to get to know me ‘cause it all starts with friendship, I think.

I’m a guy who’s confident and secure with who I am. I like to listen to and understand others. Guess I consider friendship to be more about companionship and conversation than entertainment. Yeah, I’m guilty of being somewhat of a romantic – candlelight dinners, sunsets at the beach, cuddling on the couch with a warm blanket and a good movie, that all gets me. I like a good story – be it a book or a movie. I like to get out of the house, get out of town… and I like to stay home. I’m a quiet nonconformer, I’m both contrary and sincere – sometimes a little shy, sometimes impulsive and bold.