I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. *Marylin Monroe*

Hi my name is Alexis. Im a 27 yr old woman who has two beautiful children... and theyre my main focus. Im a pretty busy woman, but we all crave the warmth of someone else :) i love music....all kinds. im about to start back at school n finish my degree....movin on up!! I have two cats who keep me entertained if a bug gets in the house..... its like rambo 1 n rambo 2 in the house....poor bugs (just kidding....i love the facts i have natural bug killers)! I am looking for a man that has some backbone to him, a man that can understand that everyone has their own insecurities about the past. We all have our baggage, no one was born an adult with a clean perfect slate. Id like a man that would feel the urge to protect me, every woman wants to know her man will be there for them if theyre scared. Id like to meet someone who understands that just because you want to trust someone right away doesnt mean that you will. If your going to try to be with someone, and you feel the urge for a lot of space, then obviously thats not the right person for you. If we do by any chance meet, and you show me one person, please be that person forever..... Im not into the whole dr jeckle mr hyde thing. I just want someone who is honest, caring, responsible, has a head on his shoulders, and isnt a user. Im about at the point where Im done being nice, Ive been walked over and used way way way to often to keep this up. Ive had my share of up and downs along this course of love, and Im looking for my final up. Im sure there will be some bumps in the road, but its what makes us better people. IF YOUR SOMEONE WHO RUNS FOR THE HILLS AT THE LITTLEST SIGN OF CONFLICT.... DO US BOTH A FAVOR N DONT MESSAGE ME!!!! Its absurd to think that in 2009 theres still people that think everything is perfect like in a movie, theres conflict wherever we go - and a relationship is only as strong as its weakest moment. If I have a worry or concern, I feel its better to talk it through rather than keep it bottled inside, although i am aware that talking about a worry or problem can be the worst thing for any relationship.
Well, now that i think ive completed my short novel, Ill let you go Hope to hear from you Im me, Im awesome, and Im loving every day of my life, whether its a sad one or a great one!! Im just me :)
P.S. IF YOUR ON HERE FOR A HOOKUP OF A SHORT TERM GIRL, PLS DONT WASTE MY OR YOUR TIME. NOT INTERESTED IN FLAKY PPL. thx!!!
P.P.S. I realize I may sound a little hateful here, and oops on that - but its the truth.... Im just about ready to give up searching..... and let "the one" just find me.....its TRULY exhausting.

First date, huh? Id like to go to go out for dinner...and then maybe go for a walk by the lake...take a long drive down a new road or go see a movie.