just miss spending time with adults since my wife died [9 years ago] and would like to meet someone thats looking for the same thing. someone to hang with, to go places with and vacation with..my kids are older now 19 and 22 and its my turn to live again..I had tried it a while ago but the kids were alot younger and it was very hard on them...I grew up in the Bronx and still go there to visit family...so i am a city guy and know Manhattan also....

first date would maybe be something short just to meet...either lunch or a drink and than if there is any sparks I would make the second date a date to remember...Something very romantic