I look at it this way... If you can't be yourself, be honest with yourself and others.... Then who can you be?

I am NOT a gold digger and I am NOT looking for someone to pay my way just because I'm unemployed. Just want someone to hang out with, make friends, go out and maybe find that special someone.

I am 43 and 135 lbs ( dynamite comes in small packages too, hehe ). I was raised here in San Diego and it has been interesting on watching it build up. Being raised here, alot of people don't understand that there is a wide variety of things to do that really doesn't cost much to do.

I love cooking and make some great Chicken, cheese and green chili enchiladas with rice and homemade hot sauce as hot as you want it ( Have I made you hungry now? ).

I like riding on motorcycles ( don't own one thou ) and I have a book on Harley's ( 1903 to 2003 )

The things that weren't mentioned in my interest box are the following. I've done a tandum jump skydiving ( was awesome ), jumped out of a perfectly good airplane at 14,000 feet over Chesapeake, VA. I'd like try surfing, snowboarding again ( last time the board chased me down the hill, hehe ) in the mountains near Las Vegas, NV. Would like to try regular skiing and I'd like to go out boating ( never done either ). I also like guns, I've shot a 22 rifle, 9m, 12 gauge shotgun and I use to own a 40 cal subcompact. And BBQ's relaxing poolside ( well if I can find one, hehe ).

I have to be honest with you all. If you really don't want kids then that is fine since I am unble to have any, and I don't mind if you have them. My son died 24 yrs ago and was never able to have more.

All I ask is give me a chance.