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• if we choose to be together i'll love you real good
• i'll give you great backrubs
• i'll show you the meaning of the term 'professional snuggler'
• i'll challenge your brain with ideas, concepts and philosophies great and small
• i'll cook you yummy things
• we'll watch lots of movies and simpsons reruns together
• we'll talk for hours
• we'll connect in deep and loving ways
• we'll go out for dinner
• we'll ' evolve'
• i'll be there for you
• i'll listen well
• i'll let my inner dork shine through
• i'll respect you (even if you're wrong)
• i'll never cheat
• i'll call you back as soon as possible
• i'll write you songs and poems
• i'll make you special things
• i'll help you
• i'll share with you
• i'll stop the world and melt with you (and other cheezy 80's references)
• we'll laugh a lot
• we'll talk in strange voices and accents
• we'll share secrets late at night
• you'll love my family (and you'll understand where such a great guy came from)
• i'll give you space (+ i need my own)
• i'll be there 100%
• i won't flake
• i'll talk you into getting dessert
• i'll get all magical when the time is right
• i'll turn you on to amazing music
• i'll tell you dumb jokes until you beg for mercy
• i don't have and won't give you any std's, i don't smoke, drink much or do drugs
• i'll challenge your mind
• when i wake you up in the middle of the night you won't be sorry
• i'm spiritual without any hint of religion or dogma
• i'm not the outdoorsy type but i'm no couch potato either
• i'm mellow, baby
• we'll rock
• we'll be independent and together (at the same time!)
• i'll support your decisions
• we'll make up stories about passerby's
• we'll make beautiful things together
• you'll be 'satisfied'
• you'll become my muse, my inspiration and the object of my desire
• you'll get free tech support (mac only)
• i'll hook you up with the remote
• you'll only get my two cents if you want it
• i'll whisper sweet things in your ear
• i'll whisper inappropriate things in your ear
• we'll play 'rock paper scissors' when there's a tough call
• i'll meet you in your dreams
• i'll tell you that you're beautiful (because it's true)
• you'll be turned on by my creativity, motivation and intelligence
• you'll be attracted to my authenticity, my open heart and my (slight) bad boy edge
• you'll swear you've never known anyone quite like me before
• you'll be glad you met me

ok. not bad, eh? here's a little bit about me: 40, aries, musician/ producer, screenwriter, counselor, philosopher, dreamer, lover, idealist, poet, with a galaxy heart and beautiful mind. i'm kind, balanced, true, sensitive and authentic. really!

now it's quiz time. please answer these easy questions...


• do you believe in magic?
• are you really intelligent, creative and spiritual?
• do you possess a deep, thoughtful and curious mind?
• are you a good conversationalist?
• are you a good listener?
• are you a good asker of questions?
• have done your fair share of inner exploration?
• are you emotionally and physically healthy?
• are you ready, willing and able to let your inner dork shine through?
• do you consider yourself a spiritual person without being into any specific religion?
• are you kinda spontaneous and responsible at the same time?
• do you love movies, art and/or music?
• do you have an active libido and know how to use it?
• do you laugh a lot?
• do you smile a lot?
• do you think it would be cool to go out with a guy who has a degree in 'creative writing with perspectives from philosophy, religion and psychology'?
• are you kind and sweet?
• are you a sensual creature?
• are you into some kind of creative endeavor?
• are you passionate?
• is your heart open and light?
• are you balanced?
• are you a good kisser?
• are you starting to tingle?

if you can answer YES to a 18 or more of these question for goodness sakes, girl, write me an email as fast as you can! don't forget to slide me some great reasons to be your boyfriend. and please be HWP, under 45, with no kids, no STDs, not into drugs, cigs or too much drinkin'.

thanks! talk to you soon...

on a first date i would like to get to spend most of the time getting to know someone. fun things to do might include— art walks, dinner, coffee, shooting photos, checking out live music, seeing a movie (and discussing it afterwards), checking out a poetry slam or author readings, etc.