i'm a 49 yo widower who loves music, plays guitar, and loves family and sports.
i love being connected to someone on all levels, but it's not worth pushing fate to find them. I'm in a comforatable place now where i know i'm a good guy with unique attributes to offer to a relationship but want to slow it down and chill and not settle, always laughing along the way . I love to travel and experience new things, and believe what goes around comes around, and i will meet someone special again...--but ye better be patient , 'cos i'm not rushing into anything at this stage in my life---be happy, awaken with a mischevious glimmer in yer eye and a suitcase full of optimism and expect God will give you the desires of your heart--in His time , daggone it, not ours..
you HAVE to believe in yourself--we are all destined for greatness, but must do some deep exploring to find the good stuff in every situation. you need a 12-ton anchor to sink my optimism, most of the time.
I love my nuclear family although they are many miles away--they are my best friends. I am not a workaholic by any definition, but will respond when called upon professionally, this being one of those %&%^*&^%&^%$ times--oh well, i'm just saving for another adventure, when the duty is done.

good food. good conversation. good music.
hopefully a glimmer of a connection.

be myself.