I have been single about 2 and half years. I've worked for the State of New Mexico 23 years. I have 4 beautiful children and 5 grand children who i am very proud of and keep me really busy. I enjoy just about anything that comes my way so long as its legal non demeaning and will be alive the next day, something i can remember forever and never regret. Another thing even tho i'm here to meet friends and i know you''re all probably really nice guys (a good part of yall anyway) if I reply it ususally means i'd like to know a little more about you, but If I don't its usually a good indication i'm not interested and i don't especially like being rude (you guys know who you are-not a good first impression) However, I too am a nice gal and can usually tell if you will interest me or not so those of you out there willing to take a chance do it you got nothing to lose and a friend to gain....by the way it might take a little while for me to reply since i don't make this my life its just a pass time and a way to meet new people so i might not reply right away...