I'm a whatever happens, happens person. If that turns out to be a relationship with that person that's awesome. If that turns out to be were just friends that's cool too. I just don't think you can look for "It" I think it has to find you.. I looked for to long so I figure I'll try this way for awhile and see if that works. I'm am
definitely not all about sex, & I know your probably like " yeah right" but I'm not. I'm very laid back person, easy going I guess you could say. I like being around my friends, chilling out. Not big on the club scene, I like hanging out at the local Applebees that's cool for me.. I like going to or watching a movie at home. I play softball, so I can stay active. That's my sport :D. Umm,, can't think of anything else.

I saw this on someones profile. It also fit me so I borrowed it. :)

~ Looks attract but personality keeps ~

~ It's best to wait for the right one because life is to short to waste on just someone ~

~ It's easier to turn friendship into love than love into friendship ~

~ There comes a time in your life when you learn that "alone" does not mean "lonely" and you begin to discover the joy of spending time "with yourself" and "on yourself" Then you discover the greatest love you will ever know. "Self Love" ~

The worst thing for a woman on a first date is to feel trapped. I would definitely prefer to go somewhere public, where she could have an easy out :) and not be trapped on a balloon with some chauvinistic cheese-ball,, which by no means is me!! Keep it simple! If your personality is not good enough to keep her entertained, then maybe you shouldn't be on a date with her! Women hate guys who try too hard. Just because you like amusement parks or bumper cars does not necessarily mean that she wants to do that on a first date. The last thing a girl wants is a guy who comes off as childish, frivolous or cheap. she wants to know that a potential mate will be a gentleman and take care of them. First dates should seem effortless for both. And don't expect to get laid on a first date, if you're serious about me, you will wait! :D

** DISCLAIMER ** FYI: 12/13/09 - I'm looking for someone who knows how to communicate and can trust the one they're with. If we "hang out", that means I'm willing to see if things develop. Don't be in a rush. I won't date while we are but I also won't remove my profile until I'm SURE which direction the relationship is headed so please express your feelings. I don't appreciate being played or not trusted to the point that I'm "spied on" or set up. Nobody deserves that and it makes for an unhealthy relationship.