so here goes...i am a single mom and i am 24...my son is my life. i recently got a job for overnight stock at toys r us while i re-train at michigan works. not the best job but very excited to train and learn a new career. i am not what you would call your typical "girly girl"...usually i am in jeans and a tshirt or whatever is comfy...i am a very spontaneous person and love not knowing what the day will bring. i am the type of girl who can dress to the occasion but also dont mind gettin a lil mud under the nails lol...i am very self motivated and feel that if there is something i want in life there is not much to stop me from getting it. i am very laid back and easy going...get along with everyone. life is too short for games. i live my life as if today were my last day. i would love to find someone who agreed with this to some extent. i love trying new things as long as they typically dont involve heights or boats (not ruling those out tho)...i am a very good cook and was recruited by the top 3 culinary colleges in the country to go to their schools my junior year of high school however i prefer cooking as a hobby...taste tester anyone?!? my only downfall is that i wear my heart on my sleeve. i give any relationship im in my all. as you can probably tell i get hurt alot because of this. i feel that to make a good relationship great there needs to be give and take on both parts and great communication. im tired of all the games. im sick of liars and cheaters and would love to find the one true honest guy out there if he actually exists.

so everyone seems to talk about their favorite music and movies so i figured i might as well do it too lol...i love all music really but it depends on my mood as to what i listen to that day...i love system of a down, nickleback, 3 doors down but to be honest there is truely something amazing in curling up with a glass of wine with michael buble on the radio after a long day. as far as movies go im going to admit my fav is the wedding date...i know its the cliche of chick flicks but hey...im a chick...so dont judge me lol....i love horror and comedy...all the resident evils, i am legend, the replacements, fool's gold...

im not really into making up lists of the perfect guy and what that would entail for me mainly because everyone is different and opposites do attract. i dont judge people for what they look like. i feel that if a relationship is going to work then there has to be a deeper connection then just skin deep. the main qualities i prefer is that i want someone with ambition and life goals. i am a very goal oriented person and feel that if you dont want to try for your dreams everyday of your life then why bother at all?! i want someone who knows how to treat a woman and who is great with kids (obviously)...i love to laugh and have fun so someone with a sense of humor is a plus. laughing makes the day worth living...

so hey if your interested then you know how to reach me...that wonderful little contact button...if your not interested then thanks for stoppin by and have a good one...

heres a bit of food for thought to remember me by::

~After twelve years of therapy my psychiatrist said something that brought tears to my eyes. He said, "No hablo ingles."

~A computer once beat me at chess, but it was no match for me at kick boxing.

~Friendship is like peeing on yourself: everyone can see it, but only you get the warm feeling that it brings.

~The man who smiles when things go wrong has thought of someone to blame it on.

~Never take life seriously. Nobody gets out alive anyway.

AND LASTLY::

~The only reason people get lost in thought is because it's unfamiliar territory.




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everyone is different so as far as a first date went it should be something we decided together. prefer a quiet place where we could talk and get to know eachother and go from there...dinner and a movie is too cliche nowadays so lets be creative ;)