First off...No, I'm not trying to get into your pants. No, I'm not here to find sex. No, I'm not going to send you pictures of me oiled up and flexing my muscles. No, I don't send out random pictures of me either. I am not that guy.

I am a decent looking, career motivated guy with a killer sense of humor and a personality all my own. I have always worked and paid my own way...I dont have a job...I have a career, theres a difference. Flipping burgers is technically a job, lol. Please do not message with this lame a s s line, "Can I see a pic of you without glasses, I can tell alot by looking at someones eyes." Thats a Junior High pick-up line for superficial people...just be honest...you wanna judge my looks and not my character, morals or personality.

Note: Ladies if your looking "for a guy to prove you wrong" or "a guy thats honest", then first you have to quit dating that kind of guy. Give a nice guy a chance!!!!

It's a shame how superficial we tend to be on sites. How many people have you known that only became really attractive to you once you got to know them?

I think people should email less and get to the phone. A 10 minute call is more revealing than a month of emails.

Definitely have to talk a few times before setting up a date. Then we could choice a nice little bistro for a quiet, public setting and laugh the night away.