I work offshore in the Gulf of Mexico as a Deepsea Diver. I'm retired Navy but am not ready to be retired and love my job. Moved back to Ladson SC to be closer to my two sons (12 and 14). I have a very flexible work schedule so I take alot of time off (another reason I love my job). I'm not looking for casual sex as I am a one woman man. Just need to find that right woman. (thought I did, but I guess I was wrong) It's difficult to meet female friends offshore, so here I am reaching out through the internet. Maybe just friends for starters and see where it goes from there. I just need to see what's out there? I've been married most of my adult life and am not too hip when it comes to this type of thing. I know I don't want to do the BAR scene though. I'm not that desperate. On the otherhand I don't mind going to bars with predetermined company. I realize my post may be a little lengthy, but I'm just hoping this spurs some interest.

I'm very honest. In fact I'm often accused of being too honest. (Why does someone ask a question they don't want an honest answer to?) Just ask if you want to know... I'm generally attracted to thin, slender or athletic women. I'm just telling it like it is and that is pretty important to me.

I guess my match would be someone genuine, adventurous, honest, ready to go to the beach on a moments notice and attractive. Of course we'd need somethings in common, but we also need our individuality. I believe in a chemical attraction that happens between two people and we would need that to be more then friends. I'm looking for someone not too serious, ready to have fun and laugh with. If that sounds like you well I'd love to hear from you.

That all depends on the interest of the person I meet. I'm not a player so I don't have a set lady killer date or an agenda. So first off I would like to get to know a little bit about my date before we actually go on the date. On the other hand I'm always open to anything and am not afraid to wing it. I love spontaneity...