i'm a laid back kinda guy who rarely loses his patience or temper, content with who he is and where he is, and considers himself to be more on the sensitive/romantic side... this doesn't mean however, i don't still have a bit of a wild streak and an extreme sense of adventure or fun...


BUT, in my experience, it is merely by means of intimacy i would swear i have glimpsed the divine... i love to share those 'winding down' parts of the day with someone special... or waking up with someone... cooking with someone... using every moment possible to share affection... mmmmmm...


i prefer to see the good in things and rarely have a negative thing to say... sure, the world is a rotting cesspool poisoning good hearted people into status infected mutants of greed, but hey, there is a ton of beauty and amazing experience to be had here still, regardless... and that's what i'm after ...i'm forever a student... and admirer of beauty... a child running through the long whispy grass, laughing, exploring, playing, imagining ...


sure, i think we REALLY get most of our cancers from sitting in rush hour everyday breathing in other peoples' toxic vehicle fumes and NOT so much from 'second hand smoke' ... !---- >but i'll prefer to work the extra hour and put the money in my pocket instead of burning it anyways... that doesn't mean i'm a work-a-holic, or cheap, or consumed by heightening my 'status' ... it just means i'm smart? i hope? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm or am i..........? see the more i think i know just leads to more that i see that i don't know...! but i find humility a beautiful thing too.... good thing for that, or i'd probably despise myself ! hahahaha and i don't...

i look at myself like a work in progress... i treat my body like a statue that i carve out daily by being in the gym... molding... chipping... adding... subtracting... like an artist would his masterpiece in clay... yes, i know i leave it when i'm dead, and it simply decomposes regardless of all the hard work that i put into it, but hey, you take care of the things you have the best you can, and the people in your life the same regardless that you leave it all when you die....! i heard a medicine man call it 'controlled folly'... i like that...

so i say live your life in controlled reckless abandon !!!


---anyways, thanks for checking me out... drop me a line and we'll hook up over a mellow bottle of wine, or a warming cup of tea... see if there's a spark to light a fire on...!

if i WAS to hook up with anyone here, it will most likely be something on the mellower/more relaxing side... a good atmosphere for good convo which invokes decent conversation... a dimly lit room, some wine, maybe some live jazz... or a cozy coffee house, that plays some decent music...

but i am into all kinds of scenarios, too... i like to cruise around the city checking out places i've yet to see... i like to lay back and relax in a scenic type of environment like the river valley... yes there are oh so many many things i could be interested in doing, really... so many things... the possibilities are literally endless...