i enjoy family and grandkids and church.. i will continue to put you first but i will also do for my family and i will do for yours too..i go to church..it would be so nice to have someone to go with me sometimes...i would like to meet someone that is interested in me and not the center of attention with EVERY female insight cuz you are insecure about yourself.. i wouldnt do that to you and i dont want it done to me..i have no objections of maybe being married again. BUT cheating is NOT an option..Im NEITHER needy NOR am i looking for a sugar daddy (dont care if you have $1.00 or million dollars, if we dont click then we need to move on.. i enjoy male company (as in 1 man).i dont believe in sharing the man.. i dont like to do everything alone..i also like to be touchy-feely..love hugs & kisses..i love to show my man i enjoy him.and i hope that man will enjoy being with me..i am just me..sometimes im crabby. but for the most part i like to be ok-happy..i can get dirty (as in dirt, greasy or whatever.then i can clean up and look like a woman again....i dont need the best of everything this world has to offer..i do not, however, want to be involved with someone who has been with another man or does or has done immoral acts..im not a prude but yet i find some things are just not right. life is way too short to keep in the past altho i know that some things happen that brings back some past.. no problem with that..if you hang onto LINGERIE or PORN PICS OF THE EXES... MOVE ON.!!!.and if you dont want to move forward, then stay in your misery cuz i dont want it..i am not bitter just tired of the nonsense.....i dont really want a smoker. but he can smoke once in a while..looking for that someone to spend the rest of eternity with.. "and actually so i can stop looking" life gets shorter day by day.. i am a good person, compassionate. loving, faithful,and passionate....i enjoy all kinds of music except rap, classical, opera. i love to watch and participate in some sports..i like to travel when possible whether it be far or near...may you have many blessings your way and have a great day.!!!...if you would like to chat or ask me something..please feel free to leave me a message..thank you....p.s. i apologize if i sound bitter, cuz im not, i just know what i can compromise with and what i cant.. ..lets go find our mate.!!

i have no set things to do on the first date..except no bedroom effect at the beginning...sorry..that part needs to wait alittle longer..so whatever the two of us would agree to do..to get to know each other and be ourselves cuz the first date is always kinda intriguing and mysterious..not too mention being nervous..but yet could turn out to be the perfect fit..have a great day and wish all of us the best luck ever..!!!!!!lets go!!..