Hello. I am a well-seasoned, on-line dater; yes, I said it. In fact, some of you may even recognize me...:)

Some days I have loved it and some days it has depressed me beyond sad - we all have our days don't we? I am not currently in the dating market but I would like to continue participating in Forum posts and threads. For this reason, I have created this profile; POF requires a profile to participate.

I can also field any e-mail questions you might have about your profile, your approach or general questions you might have about on-line dating; just make sure you actually want to hear my thoughts because I can be candid - haha!

Over the years I have gained a variety of experiences through on-line dating, both successful and unsuccessful and I have come to have some thoughts about dating on-line as a whole and how it goes along with the process we each have as a human looking to connect with other humans. I am not a specialist on human behavior, a certified therapist nor does anyone pay me for my opinions whatsoever but as an analyst, I tend to gather input data and format it into logical design. Hence, any stuff I post is purely my "thoughts" and subject to voracious dispute by professionals and other ameteurs alike... but I'm pretty sure I'm not too far off on most of it:)

Each man I have ever encountered through on-line dating sites has been unique and special in his own way, even if he wasn't in the end the right match for me. He is someone's perfect hottie somewhere - from merely a hook-up partner to marriage material:)

For forum discussions and posts, please feel free tell me I'm a genius or an idiot - I have broad shoulders:) In the course of posting anything though, if one person sees some value in my thoughts or is able to use the information to their benefit then WOO HOO! I'm happy...

So, there you go... now, what did I do with that white paper... oh yeah, here it is!