--UPDATE-- well i havnt had much success with this thing but only been out three times but this is what i have learned! Ladies first and foremost dont ask for a honest guy if you dont really want one i wont lie, pretend to be something im not, or be fake in anyway shape or form the facts of life for me are im a widower i lost my wife and oldest son to a drunk driver if you find that to hard to deal with then 1. dont ask me out! and 2. dont hit me with expectations that i and any other guy simply cant meet! we all have flaws each and every one of us oh and i had back surgery in july from being blown up twice after all i am a soldier and thats the price we pay but hopefully i should be back in the gym shortly so that being said now back to your regularly scheduled profile.

well lets see where to start? i enjoy working around my house i have a couple acres that keeps me busy, i enjoy spending time with my kids and their activities and riding my harley when i get the chance. I have been a soldier for almost twenty years now so looking forward to retiring soon and starting something new in life, i love to laugh usually at myself and making others laugh and i dont take life to seriously if i can things have a way of working themselves out,i dont do drama and i wont be anything else but me flaws and all "hey since when did any of us guys get anything right the first time":) im fully capable of taking care of myself and my children i have been doing it for seven years now so i have domestic skills lol but i would enjoy spending time with someone again and having a social life outside work and taking care of kids i like being with one person and one person ONLY and im extreamly loyal and committed to the person im with, anyway if you would like to know more you know what to do!

well im up for just about anything if its the traditional dinner and a movie or do something where we can challenge each other and have fun. Go bowling. Play miniature golf,and i stink at sports so great chance for you to kick my butt, Go get some ice cream. Take a walk around a lake. Do something that's casual, fun, and no pressure. activity dates seem to give more easy conversation topics.