Flunked DATING 101. New to dating and all the games that come with it. Yup - I have a sense of humour, fun loving, crazy at times, 40something female that is definately young at heart, looking for the same in a guy. Kinda a tomboy as a kid; riding dirt bikes, skidoos and playing a lot of sports.

I'm looking for honesty - stop wasting time with games. Aren't you lookin for the same? Like to talk? Tell me what YOU really want and even better if you like to listen? (quiz later plus bonus round)-lol Romance - hope it still exists?

I won't respond to messages if you don't have a picture. Friends vs Dating vs Long-term; what's the right answer? Whatever works I guess. Message me, I won't bite (yet!).

Been told I'm not like most on POF and I'll explain. First, I don't believe in changing anybody. You met that person for who they are and were attracted to that. In a relationship, people need to maintain their own hobbies/interests and likes/dislikes. Once you start changing someone or you change for someone - somewhere down the road it doesn't work and one of you becomes unhappy. So why change in the first place? Second - yes I'm in my forties but look and act much younger. I like to have fun and don't care what others think. Having said that - I still have good morales and know what's most important in life!