I am an abrasive person with an infectious personality. I enjoy long walks off short piers and often give bad advice in good situations. I enjoy time with family, friends, and especially my children.

I am not sure what I am looking for here, but I figured I owe it to myself to weigh out all my options and not limit myself from these dating sites. I can tell you that I am quite selective when looking and reading these profiles. I don't respond well to those that just want to hook up... in fact, I won't respond at all. Also, use some punctuation people!! You dont have to be the most educated person in the world to send an email.

I love all types of music but especially 80's and Country. I enjoy going to night clubs (when with the right crowd) though I have grown quite tired of all the whole club scene.

Goals/Aspirations...?? My only goal is make the most of every day and every situation. Things happen for a reason and because of that... you are reading this.

First date: Dinner & a movie ? NOT!! I do not want to spend the first night I am meeting someone watching them eat... or allowing them to watch me chew my food. Nor am I interested in learning about someone in the complete silence of a movie!

The perfect first date.. doesn't exist. You can't plan the perfect date. You will know it when it happens... and at that moment.