Well what to say about myself??? I am down to earth, easy going and take life as it comes..can't change it. Make the most of what is handed to you! I will add more later..in the meantime if you want to know anything just ask..I am an open book. I am honest..you may not like what you hear but you will hear the truth! Oh I must add one standing rule that I have..no offense meant really there isn't..but you must be closer to my age than my oldest sons (19) and closer to my age than my dads (52)..
I listen to a variety of music..mostly country and classic rock. I am an independent person..do enjoy my nights out with the girls..having a few drinks and a good time.
Not looking for someone to take care of me financially..I can handle that by myself. If you are a controlling, jealous or insecure person..we won't get along..thats a guarantee..although a little jealousy is healthy in a relationship.
What am I looking for in a man..hmmm..first and foremost..someone that will take me as I am..why is it that you meet someone, say you fall in love then all of the sudden decide that they need to make some changes? Did they all of the sudden become someone completely different from what you fell in love with? Second he must be able to get along with my children..they are the most important part of my life and they are part of the deal. Ultimately I am looking for my bestfriend..the unconditional type of friendship that is very rarely found these days.
I have a feeling that the whole smoking thing is a large issue with alot of men on this site..especially the ones that do not smoke and are athletic..completely understandable..however I am in the process of quitting..they do not have an option for that..lol. Another scare maybe the fact that I am a bartender..let me explain that just a little..I tend bar in a local veterans club..so the chances of me going home with a customer are slim to none! lol
I should add..that if I favorite you that is because something about your profile has sparked my interest and I don't want to have to search forever to find you again when I do get up the nerve to send a message..lol
I have noticed that alot of the men on this site do not have any pics..why is that?? If you have a profile why not have a few pics posted?? You can't tell me that you are not clicking on profiles of women that you find attractive by their pics. If you do not have the nerve to put up a pic then maybe you should not be here in the first place.
As far as the whole "longterm" that is essentially what I am looking for in the end..however I am not willing to jump into anything feet first blindfolded. So dating would be the first aspect.

Open to just about anything..somewhere and something that we are both comfortable with..