I'm a semi-minimalist who has learned that I don't have to work all the time and that I need time to play. I am enjoying the great things in life. Those little things that make me smile, even if its a stupid reason. I like funny movies and serious ones too... This time of year I love to go look at twinkly Christmas lights while sipping hot cocoa. I like to converse on anything from stupid movie quotes to health care reform, just pick a topic, usually I can fake it if I have to. I love learning so challenge me...

I am looking to find someone who is almost but not totally normal. I want a guy in my life, I don't have to have one. I'm independent for the most part, but I like to feel needed. I think that everyone really wants the same thing, its just figuring out which packages to open and keep. The only thing that can really irritate me about these things is that people pass judgment on others to quickly. Take the time to get to know someone and then pass judgment.

**Alright guys, I feel the need to get on a soapbox and help you out a bit here... I know that contacting someone is scary and boy howdy having a real life conversation is frightening! But if you are here looking for more than a booty call step up to the plate and have a real conversation. That is what most women like. If you are shy, that's cool, but you have the ability to type and share that way. Also, if she doesn't respond, it's cool, you don't want her any way. Personally, I respond if you put a little effort forward and are not old enough to be my dad. So take a chance... You will never find anything worth having if you don't risk something. So I hope to hear from you...Off soapbox now**

Coffee or drinks always a good pick!