Explaining myself in words isn't easy..I'm one of those people who lights up a room when I walk in it.its super natural.I have always been this way with and without make up on or fancy clothes on.I would say I'm a whitty,sensitive,caring,educated super strong independant woman.yeah!that's me.I have never had a "sour" relationship or friendship.I'm most of the time bubbly,and I'm getting to the point where I'm embracing my sexuality.I'm very approachable and therefore I find myself in conversations that are for the most part far from "normal" I have always been called "hot" "one of a kind" "smart" and "beautiful" And for the first time I'm beginning 2 believe that.I was brought up 2 think I should "tone down" my energy and so therefore I've settled for things.I believe in the motto "you reap what u sow" and therefore I stay in a gullible frame of mind..for instance I will walk into a store with short shorts,don't lock my house or car door and I'm not obsessed over insurance policies.I don't save every penny I earn and I definately love to do things spur of the momment.I'm goal oriented and I love giving and serving.I love 2 look attractive and I love being in a professional atmosphere.I hate 2 listen 2 whining and b***ing and I hate playing a "victim" role in any situation.right now I have some "walls" built up that I'm desperately trying 2 tear down.I strongly feel my past is just that "the past" and i don't regret Anything I have said or done in my life.its definately challenging 2 get 2 know me because I absorb myself in my daughters interests and needs but on the other hand I dislike "Bug a boos" soooo patience patience.I'm a lot of work 2 maintain but easy 2 handle.oh! And for the record I've been labled materialistic but I just think I like nice things and not afraid 2 work for them. So after stating all that I can't imagine who the heck would b curious about getting to know me. MUAH! Oh MOST importantly I believe in God and yes! I have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ!

First date?? O my! Definately not the movies and depending on the "sexual chemistry".. limit my alcohol consumption..its been a while 4 me and right now I'm looking for friendships..not sex partners..I think.haha