I work too much, I have WAY too big of a heart, I'm more of a pleaser that a taker, I tend to be more dominant than passive, ALWAYS respectful. I typically know WHEN it's time to act and when it's time to compromise. I like to play cards, golf, read go to the movies - go grab an ice cream cone on the spot.

I like the opera house yet LOVE seeing live sporting events and concerts... I love all music - basically an open book with a huge array of things I like to do and am looking for - NOT closed minded in the least...

I'm divorced as of 2006 and don't have any kids (at least none that I know of or am paying for!). LOVE kids but never found the ONE to have them with. Animals and most children love me for some reason. I work in Troy and live in Dearborn Heights - I'm VERY easy to get along with but I can also smell BS a mile away. I enjoy almost any activity thrown my way and will stomach it if I don't for the right girl.... If I call you 'young lady' and you're 35 or older - it's a term of endearment - NOT sarcasm...lol that's just me!

** small update - I guess I'm a schmuck because I thought an "activity partner" was somebody you actually DO stuff with like movies and concerts and things... APPEARENTLY I was mistaken!!! Damn - hope that didn't leave a mark! In addition - I was asked about sex - I feel that regardless of age ANY sex between 2 people should be shared and WANTED not expected... hell - IF you like each other and each others body parts are still functional why wouldn't you want to share something like that? PLUS... heaven forbid it's GOOD enough to want more than twice a year!!!!

Again... just my skewed way of thinking I suppose...

LOL - 1st dates are nerve racking in and of themselves - obviously a public place, maybe not diving into libations right off the bat BUT I'll assume that we've spoken PRIOR to meeting and have seen each other - so really what's the big mystery? I PROMISE I'll shower and use toothpaste so I won't offend you!!! (again - sarcasm shining through!)