I like to put my mind to good use with good thoughts. I love to be with someone i am attracted to and when i find that connection it inspires me to write poetry, cook delicious meals, take long walks, travel to amazing places, see amazing music, and share my kids. i have recently discovered that whomever i date must understand a bit of spirituality. how to break down quantum fields particles would be great! if not, then i conversation about self discovery will suffice.
when i am without this spiritual chemical connection, i do these things on my own, but its not quite so sparkly.
i want that sparkly back. with so much to offer, i am waiting it out for the ultimate. the man i want must be some sort of in his genius. rocket scientist, quantum physicist, missionary doctor, master chef, amazing sculptor, public speaker, dog trainer, film producer, anyone who is passionate about his spirituality and personal growth, open minded, inspired, and true to his desire. you must really want a true connection for i have found mostly flaky men on this site (you know who you are) and i am not into being stood up, told you will call and dont then make excuses, still a player in his 40's, really guys, an man should be a man and do what he says... know what he wants, and acts accordingly.

we DO get excited about getting dressed up. look fantastic. smile shyly and meet. enjoy the vibe, maybe a little candlelight and nice music in the background. tasty food and the excitement that this man has captured my attention by being sexy, smart, and attentive. after dinner, if we are smitten, then go to some spontaneous place and hopefully share a mutual connection that is instant and so strong it cannot be denied.
we DONT get drunk, we dont have sex, we dont stare at the waiters or waitresses ass, talk on our cell phones, we dont talk about how bad your ex treated you or your lawyers fees or that kids are baggage, or that we are sinful sinners and there is only one way to GOD. no no no. lets do each other a favor and pass the opportunity, probably not soul mates.