Let's see...I just turned 37, I think I am finally settled into my new condo after 2 years, and I am looking to get back into the dating scene but I can really do without the games. I have been focused on my career (I do not care much for my job) and it has spawned a side project that I am super excited about. If I loved my job, the side project would have never occurred, which makes me a believer in the “door closes/window opens” cliche. Although, it should be made perfectly clear that I do not believe that god (little “g”) has anything to do with windows and doors opening and closing. He always seems more preoccupied with sports stars catching winning passes in Superbowls and rappers winning Grammy Awards.

As far as dates, I am a daytime person and prefer hitting Peddler’s Village or Cape May for the day and refuse to participate in the bar hopping and clubbing unless there is a good band playing. However, nothing is better than a night out over a romantic dinner at a nice restaurant. My match would also enjoy some of the same things I do, such as mountain biking or going for a jog. Couples need some time to themselves and with their own friends so while I am out golfing, feel free to go shopping with your girlfriends (secretly, I would prefer that you golfed and came with me). But if you do take the shopping route, you are more than welcome to pick me up something from J. Crew (shirts are large, pants are 33x34, shoes are size 11, and I am partial to blues, greens, and earth tones). I’ll be awaiting that shipment. ;)

First date would be something as simple as just meeting for coffee, possibly a Starbucks inside a mall, which would allow us to walk around and get to know one another and add as little stress to the situation as possible.