About me:

Staying fit and healthy is an integral part of my life. I'm happy with where I am right now, both physically and emotionally. I swim competitively and try to make it to the gym or pool 3-4 times a week. (I may look like Vin Diesel but I'm most at home in the pool).

I'm a pretty smart cookie, and I'd still rather learn something new than allow others the benefit of my considerable intellect (and if you took that completely seriously, then my sense of humor isn't for you :)

I believe in simplicity, honesty and integrity. Life isn't complicated when you just stick to the truth.

I have 2 wonderful, active kids 50% of the time, who are obviously a big part of my life (ages 9 and 12), but I'm definitely missing someone special to experience this life with.

Given a choice, I'd much rather spend an evening at home cooking something interesting (with a glass of wine) than going out on the town, but catching a movie (or a play(!)) will always catch my interest.

About you:

You extend respect to both others and to yourself (which means you take care of yourself, emotionally and physically). You value intelligence, integrity and open-mindedness. You appreciate the value of a daily laugh, and that often, the best laughs are when you get to laugh at yourself.

Um...it says here to talk about my taste in music, so how about yes to just about anything except for country, heavy rap and heavy opera. And Iniut throat-singing. To each their own, I guess...

I'd rather have a raisin than a date, but I'll be flexible if you're cute..