***Update (Nov, 2009) - I am currently taking a break from this site, but best of luck to you!*** I like a man who is genuine, flirty, a little bit crazy, confident (but not arrogant), has a bit of an edgy side (but not in a head game or abusive way), smart, witty and creative. He'll be liberally open-minded, sincere, silly & a great kisser.

I believe the key to a great life is balance. Love your family, like your career, give back to the Earth and your community and it's OK spend time away from those things so you don't forget who "you" are! Staying true to yourself can be hard, but I believe it's the only way to find your true love.

I am looking for someone who doesn't take themselves (or life) too seriously and yet understands responsibility has a place in the world. I have one dimple. I have two amazing boys and of course they are the light of my life and the top on my priority list. I'm a big dork. I am giving and independent and I have a fear of spiders & heights. NPR and coffee in the morning are a must. I'm most comfortable in my Levi's & chucks. Laughter is always the best medicine (and I can probably make you laugh). I have cute toes.

Some of my favorites things:

Movies - True Romance, Step Brothers, Raising Arizona, In Bruges & Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind.

Music - White Stripes, Arcade Fire, Amy Winehouse, Radiohead, Modest Mouse, Beck, The Flaming Lips & Dovehunter

Quotes - "It is better to conquer yourself then to win a thousand battles" Buddha

The first time we meet should be about talking and seeing if there is mutual chemistry. After that; the sky's the limit.