Starting over again. What am I looking for..I haven't the foggiest idea. I like self sufficient individuals, who are sure of themselves, people who have not gotten old before their time, with self confidence,and honesty being essential. Some one who is true to themselves,not walking in shoes they think others would like to see them in!Somebody who if fun,and enjoys having fun. I love wit, great wit!!! I really like anybody who can make me laugh and sometimes it doesn't really take that much!!!lol I guess I will know what I want when I find it!! It depends a lot on character,and a mutual attraction.

I take care of myself. I go to the gym loyally. I have pride in what I have and what I have acquired. I am a worker and expect the same out of others. I don't think I am entitled to any more than I am willing to work for.

I have self confidence, and self esteem, sometimes too much, lol but I also have respect for others and in return I expect respect!. I will always respect your opinions, may not agree with it but I will respect it as yours.

I know that we haven't all lived a perfect life. So many times I looked to the heavens and said God why me. I don't blame him or anyone else for the rough roads this life has sometimes led me down. I think we all have trials and tribulations it's how we deal with them that make us who we are. In all the bad times we have, we can learn and take a positive from them.When we do find the positive in what seems to be a rough time it really wasn't that bad, It was a time of inner growth.

I am a widow, I had a very ill husband whose side I stayed by til his dying day. From a dying man I learned so much about living.I don't get my happiness from what I have, I work to live.I find my happiness in people and time with them.

I whine about yard work but I am glad that it's here for me to do...It means I still have place to call home. It keeps me busy...I like being busy. Why? I don't know I guess it kills boredom.

I am thankful for everyday I have on this great Earth. I love the outdoors. Summer is by far the very best season we have!!! I love water; Lake Erie is awesome,walking on a hot sandy beach is like walking through heaven to me.

Now that winter is so near I am more an indoors person. I don't like to be cold!!! I have a fireplace to keep me nice and toasty. A good book to read,a blanket and a crackling fire will keep me happy. If I only didn't have to carry in that firewood it would be perfect!!!




I am not looking for a knight in shinning armor he went away as soon as the story books cover was closed. I think...are there any knights left???

First dates should be in public places.