Im on this site because I work alot. I work nights and dont have the time to find what Im looking for. I do not date where I work. So, that leaves the grocery store, gas station, post office and the gym to meet people.

I surround myself with People who love to laugh and smile. I dont do drama and will distance myself from it . People with integrity and goals in life. People who enjoy life , respect theirs and others place in it. Real, down to earth, Confident, non- materialistic, non- medicated people.

I'm of German decent. I have 4 big Brothers and 2 grown sons. I was married for over 20 years to the same man and have been divorced for 3 years. Im very independant, laid back and balanced. I am very approachable and easy to talk to and a problem solver. I wear BDU's and combat boots 5 days a week, so I like to be a girly girl when Im off duty. I am emotionally and financially stable.

My faults are...I cant seem to take a compliment, but Im getting better at it. I get wrapped up in other peoples problems (usaually to escape my own) but Im getting better at that too.I could take better care of myself and Im learning to do so after many years of putting others first.

I am attracted to tall (6'3"), youthfull, Dark haired, clean cut men. Gentlemen.

So, Im looking for someone that makes me better than I am. A well balanced man that brings to the table, at least what I bring. Hopefully more.He must be a gentleman and willing to take things slowly. He must have strong Family ties (as I do).He must not use any kind of drugs. He needs to be strong willed and ambitious. He needs to have learned from lifes lessons and became a better man for it. He needs to have strong hands that can also gently stroke my cheek, wipe away my tears or brush the hair off my face. Someone who knows that Im not always as strong as others see me, who knows when I need a break and is there for me to fall into his arms.No questions asked. If your strong enough to be my man, then drop me a line.

A Meet-n-greet first, if we click, then we'll figure it out.