First dates would be good at a coffee shop, or maybe a bar, just to have a drink and talk and see if theres any chemistry. I believe if theres that certain click everthing just flows. I am currently in the restaurant buss., but am trying to get a grant to go to nursing school, that's one of my goals, I love to take care of people and make them feel better, to me that is very rewarding. I have an aa degree so it shoudn't take too long, i want to be a registered nurse in a hospital. With the economy the way it is i think there will always be a demand for nursing. I also love animals, I would have all kinds if i could, but right now i live in a apt. so that would be unfair to certain kind of pets. I have a little terrier and he's sooo cute. I rescued him from a shelter. I am very personable so I get along with just about anyone. I try to surround myself with positive people, I believe if you try to be positive in your life, positive things will happen. Especially if you think positive. I have not been in a long term relationship for a long time, I'm very picky, not about looks, just about a man having the basics, job, car, ambition, etc. It's hard to find a good man. I would rather be alone, then be in a bad relationship. I would like to find that special one for me, I know he's out there somewhere and maybe this site will help me find him, you never know. I'm not into the bar scene. And don't put myself in enough situations where i could meet someone. That's why i figured this could be a good option. I'm just a normal, down- -to- earth girl, looking for the same. So if you like what you see and hear you know what to do!