The relationship wizards at POF assure me long and windy is the way to go, so here goes... my hobbies & interest are varied... most recently i've begun butchering photography, other than that I enjoy travel, camping, fishing, fly tying, pool, golf, woodwork, carpentry, cooking, gardening, computers, books, movies, music rock to bach (cept rap), concerts, live sports, remote beaches, hiking soon!! , paddling... yada yada, yada...nothing to weird...yet!

I've made my original goals. As a single parent I raised 3 children 1, 3 & 6... remarried ultimately sharing in the lives of 5 children. Also i'm blessed with 3 grandchildren. I've managed to get my security. I retired 3 years, bored (idle hands lol) I went back to work. Currently work part time 3 days a week. Now as for my aspirations... that's easy, slide into retirement gracefully. i'm hoping to have a go to place on both coast which will let me come and go with stop in between, continue foreign travel, enjoying my family, their kid's, my friends and hopefully by locate that missing rib. Finding the yin to our yan bring life into high def... kind of completes who we are.
How i'm unique... well 6 billion people and only one me... not so much eh... then how about a unique type of job? Look ladies the plain truth is i'm not so interested in being someone else idea of unique. I don't know about you folks but i'm happy! Being happy is pretty unique don't you think. I got a good job that keeps me out of trouble lol... yes i can still be bad, great family, great friends. He@%, i'm unique because i've won life's lottery! Finding you complete my uniqueness. Till then i plan on keeping my world simple, interesting and a happy place.

Now because POF said i should, i got to talk about myself some more... ok, what do i bring and what do i need...i am not a clinger, nor do i seek one. I detest jealousy... i'll run and hide. I give and expect some me time. I will respect your dreams and you mine. We need “honest communication". If your expecting the strong silent type you won't get that with me. Lol ain't life a ****? People tell me, i clean up fairly well, somewhat intelligent, fairly articulate and for better or worse i have a "unique" sense of humor. At first glance it might seem i'm a half glass pragmatist, as luck would have it you'll quickly find him followed by his alter ego the "so why not fill it up guy".

Lastly my children are important to me. We are a package. Personally i have no doubt that my family and friends will respect my choice of a mate. Privately they'll probably applaud your bravery or lament your senseless quest for pain. I'm at home with our public and private moments. I'm touchy feel-ee, i enjoy holding hands, cuddling, being in our space, giving and receiving a casual walk by caress. Touching, caresses, and sex are synonymous. All are a barometer of how we feel. Curiously people B***H about the lack of intimacy in their life but when given the opportunity they don't use it wisely. I don't get that! Oh ya i will swap spit in public if you insist. lol Also i guess it would be fair to say socially i don't like to do the same things over & over, again. I'm a guy who likes to travel, two to three times a year. ns, bc, albt, ont, nfld, mexico, bermuda, thailand, hawaii have been some of my choices.

I suppose not so strangely, remembering all these thing about my life brings me to life's thank you's. We never get here alone. I need to thanks my family, friends, and the "old battle ax"... my ex, (FYI gone 15 years).

Soooooooooooo if i work on most or heaven help us all of these levels, drop me a line, and we can chat...if i turn out to be, "not your cup of tea", so be it... i wish you good luck in your search.

1st, 2nd, 3rd meeting/date... coffee, some talk, some more talk, a little finger food... eventually a light evening somewhere... if the feelings are mutual. if your looking for a skydiving date, we both know he's out there... good luck happy hunting.