I am pretty easy going but at the same time I'm working hard on a personal journey of self improvement based around not holding grievances or being critical of others and living in the present.

I also believe that if all you do is based around love and good intentions then good things can't help but come into your life.

Goals set you up for disappointment IMO and are designed for you to impose your unrealistic visions on a situation. Much better to be passionate about what you like doing and see where it takes you.

As for music, it varies from the Offspring, to 70's and 80's pop, from the Kaiser Chiefs to Weezer, from Pink Floyd to Moby, from early ACDC to the Kings of Leon. In other words probably from JJJ to MMM.

Don't mistake that for not wanting an exciting and fulfilling sex life;)

I LOOVVE travel and would be really happy if I could meet someone compatible who wants to go and see new places and experience new things.

I like to write scripts for film and tv and I hope to write something that people will really enjoy.

Keeping fit is important to me and I go to gym 4 times a week, do one session of yoga and most weeks will run 40-50 k's.

My ultimate girl would be fun, feminine and have hared interests and values while at the same time recognizing that it's critically important that a relationship doesn't define her identity in itself.

First dates shouldn't be too full on as both parties need an escape shute if things aren't happening.

We'd meet in a mutually known place for a couple of drinks where there are enough people about for her to feel comfortable but also quiet enough so we can talk easily.

After that we may go and get something to eat!!!